By Coach Terri

How can you get the love that you have always dreamed of?  Some people say that communication is the answer.  Others say you need to learn conflict resolution skills.  I know the one thing you can do today to start to have the relationship of your dreams.

The Secret

If any of you have seen the DVD or read the book, "The Secret", you will understand what I am about to tell you.  In order for you to create the perfect love, you need to start to appreciate all of the wonderful things about your partner.  Focus on everything you love about him/her.

Your Action Plan

First, I want you to write a list of all of things you love about your partner.  It can be qualities they have (generosity, honesty, commitment).  It can also be activities you share with them (going to movies, love of ice cream).  I want you to come up with as many as you can think of.  Read it everyday.  Remember all of the special times you have shared.

The second part of this exercise is to choose one item from the list per day.  Tell your partner that you love him/her for this item.  Express why it is important to you.  Share examples and experiences you have had.

Appreciation is a powerful exercise.  Everyone loves to be told that they are special and that they are loved.  Remember to not take your partner for granted.  Love and appreciate them everyday.

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