I popped in today to see if anyone had posted to my question. Wow!! Thank you all for such wise words and advice. You've all given me many things to consider. I even feel better after reading the comments and suggestions.

It's fabulous that this site offers such a great service. I didn't really have anyone I could talk too about this who would be objective. You've all helped allot. I'll be telling my friends about this site and the Ask A Coach service. I'll certainly be back once I've digested all that's been said. Thank you all for caring.

Thanks, Not as confused!